Shannon L. Alder Quotes

Staying for your children is noble. However, staying with someone that teaches your children that "selective" evilness is okay is mental illness.

You can find anyone that will tell you what you want to hear, but the only one worth valuing is the one that tells you what you need to learn.

The purpose of any healthy relationship is to find someone that will magnify your life's experiences, not tolerate it or become a spectator of it.

The best part of the gospel is you get to take it with you wherever your heart lands.

The reason a lot of women can't move on from a relationship or people they love is because they need to know why. Why did this happen? Why did you do this? Why don't you care? Why did you hurt me? Why...

People often tell themselves lies, in order to reach what they consider acceptance in difficult situations. In reality, they fool themselves into believing they are healed, until that lie is corrected...

Despite our disapproval with what God allows us to endure, he still remains the same God that is not interested in our convenience, as much as our character.

You will never let go of the one thing that God keeps prompting you to fix.

The problem will never be diversity, the challenging of tradition or the one person that questions the way life should be. The person that shows the world that this is wrong, there is a perspective yo...

Telling the world you are trying is not doing.

Your strength will be found when you stop struggling with yourself, instead of thinking everyone is a struggle worth overcoming. Every obstacle in life is a lesson that teaches us, not others.

God never uses one approach to the get his job done in the world. Each soul has its own way of being reached. He has put inside of each of us an unique song, that only another heart can hear clearly....

The good part about having a mental disorder is having a valid reason for all the stupid things we do because of a damaged prefrontal cortex. However, the best part is seeing someone completely sane d...

There are many types of marriage relationships and all of them can work, but none is sadder than the one that doesn't represent peace in your heart.

Often people that settle in life are those that only do what they can with what they have and where they are. Never settle for someone that didn't know your worth from the beginning, or build a life w...

You might not get the apology you deserve. You might not get answers to explain the actions of others. You might not get truth that makes sense to you. You might not get people to understand what you...

The most important gift you can give your children is the importance of standing up to injustice. Children will remember moments spent with you. However, it isn't togetherness that creates humane pare...

Never fall in love with someone that won't fight for you because when the real battles begin they won't pull your heart to safety, but they will their own.

A daughter of God knows that insecurity is not an excuse for doing evil to others, nor will God rest until caring for everyone is a lesson you learn.

Gratitude was never meant to be an excuse for giving up on the obstacles God has put before you. Some of the most magical things he can bring us require faith and a lot of planning.