Shannon L. Alder Quotes

Being kind to someone, only to look kind to others, defeats the purpose of being kind.

You will never choose love greater than what you believe you deserve and what other insecure people tell your lack of self esteem to have faith in.

The purpose of any healthy relationship is to find someone that will magnify your life's experiences, not tolerate it or become a spectator of it.

The irony of rule followers is they often quote a lot of people that do not follow as many rules as they do.

Praying for the people that hurt you may not change them, but it will change you.

Narcissists are consumed with maintaining a shallow false self to others. They're emotionally crippled souls that are addicted to attention. Because of this they use a multitude of games, in order to...

I am not perfect, but if I looked perfect to everyone I must have been rocking imperfect perfectly to a few imperfect souls that seek imperfection vs. perfection, in an imperfect world where God asks...

You don't have to apologize for loving someone or wanting a life that no longer fits your blueprint. The beginning phase of reclaiming your life always starts with apologizing to yourself, then apolog...

When you think this pain is all you deserve, you are right. You are the only one that can decide how long you will walk in hell.

Somethings worth having defy logic. They come with obstacles, challenges, battles and long periods of wandering in the dark. Your path won't make sense to your family or friends. People will weigh in...

The problem will never be diversity, the challenging of tradition or the one person that questions the way life should be. The person that shows the world that this is wrong, there is a perspective yo...

Reasoning with senselessness will never build faith. Faith is strengthened when you stop collecting fragmented signs and questionable hunches, in order to build an acceptable reason for your wrong dec...

Some women don't care what you can do for them. They care about what you could make of them in the inside.

A paradox is a storm that rains on itself.

When someone you loved finds no flattery in the gift you gave them then you must ask yourself, "What was worth loving?

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Don't beg for approval or expect respect. Respect comes from within and your choice to allow people to take it from you, by how you teach them to treat you.

True love is the tide that pulls out to sea, but always returns to kiss the shore at sunrise.

Anyone can have a friend, but the one that would walk in a storm to find you is all you will ever need.

Telling the world you are trying is not doing.