Life sometimes reminds us that it is sometimes heartless by giving something or someone we really need to someone who does not need or even want them or it.
To evade insanity and depression, we unconsciously limit the number of people toward whom we are sincerely sympathetic.
The rich eat life, the poor eat death; so what is the problem they ask?
Some of the people we feel sorry for feel sorry for us for thinking that they are the ones who should be felt sorry for.
We are sometimes hurt mostly or only not by what happened or is happening to us but by being felt sorry for.