Shannon L. Alder Quotes

You cannot become a peacemaker without communication. Silence is a passive aggressive grenade thrown by insecure people that want war, but they don't want the accountability of starting it.

Empowered Women 101: Happiness is something that you establish before a relationship. It is not the relationship that establishes it first.

You can spend the rest of your life fighting to be respected, accepted and understood by the people you have created a life with or you can start living a life where that isn't a daily goal and ambiti...

Ironically, the only way to see clearly is to stand at a distance. You might be focused, but that doesn't mean you are seeing correctly. Sometimes, you have you to grab the camera from the idiot takin...

If you could do one thing to improve yourself today, it would be this: Rid yourself of bias. If you can do this, you can learn to listen. If you learn to listen, then you can learn to communicate. If...

The only chains you should wear in life are the chains of commitment.

It takes courage to let go of the past and all the mechanisms you have put in place, in order to ease your pain, regret and fear through avoiding responsibility for it.

I will never be someone's last choice, second option, narcissistic supply, doormat, ego booster, sidekick, secret, last time or after thought. I am a Daughter of God that stands for truth. I know my b...

The most glorious moment you will ever experience in your life is when you look back and see how God was protecting you all this time.

When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, "What was it that you wanted and why didn't you fight for it?

You may marry Miss Grey for her fifteen pounds but you will always be my Willoughby. My nightmare. My sorrow. My past. My mistake. My regret. My love.

The only difference between you and the person you admire is their perspective on life.

Don't ever believe that Narcissists don't understand they have hurt you. They know exactly what they did and why they did it. The reason they can't stop their abuse is because the narcissistic supply...

Principles are meant to serve people, not people serving to uphold the principle, while harming the people.

If you never learned to hold onto someone, how could it possibly hurt now to let them go?

Empowered Women 101: A confident woman takes him for exactly who he is, not who she wants him to be. He is who he is, take it or leave it before you get married. This is the ground level of your partn...

It is better to be alone then to be in a relationship, while you are trying to figure out what love means to you.

It is the subtle things in life that you have to look for because the deepest love speaks at a whisper that only two people can hear.

The most common lie you will ever tell God is your opportunity to do the right thing was taken from you.

What you give meaning to is what causes your emotion. Before you react know why you are giving something so much energy or fear. When you begin to understand why you give things meaning you can begin...