Harville Hendrix Quote

There are times in most relationships when one partner is mystified by the other’s behavior: You’re crazy. You keep doing the same things over and over, and it’s totally unproductive! Or, I am totally confused by you. You make no sense. I’m surprised that you’re going to accept that promotion. You are far too busy already. There are also times when you are triggered by something your partner does or by your partner’s repetitive behavior. Knowing something about your childhoods will help you understand that.

Harville Hendrix

There are times in most relationships when one partner is mystified by the other’s behavior: You’re crazy. You keep doing the same things over and over, and it’s totally unproductive! Or, I am totally confused by you. You make no sense. I’m surprised that you’re going to accept that promotion. You are far too busy already. There are also times when you are triggered by something your partner does or by your partner’s repetitive behavior. Knowing something about your childhoods will help you understand that.

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About Harville Hendrix

Harville Hendrix (born 1935) is an American writer.
Hendrix is best known for the book Getting the Love You Want, which gained popularity during Hendrix's 17 appearances on The Oprah Winfrey Show.
He is a member of the American Association of Pastoral Counselors as well as a clinical member of the American Group Psychotherapy Association and the International Transactional Analysis Association, and has produced 10 written works in partnership with his wife Helen LaKelly Hunt.