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Harriet Lerner Quote

Nu ești o persoană mai puțin iubitoare sau incompletă, dacă îți rămân anumite lucruri pe care nu le poți ierta și dacă îți dorești ca pe anumite persoane să nu le mai întâlnești vreodată-n viață. Poate că devii un om mai puternic și mai curajos, dacă ai ceva mânie reziduală (fie că provine dintr-o mare trădare, fie din numeroase neplăceri mici) și, în ciuda ei, reușești să-ți vezi de viața ta. Mai important ca orice, nu e treaba nimănui - nici a terapeutului, nici a mamei sau profesorului ori a vreunui ghid spiritual, a celui mai bun prieten sau expert în relații - să-i spună altuia că trebuie să ierte (sau nu).

Harriet Lerner

Nu ești o persoană mai puțin iubitoare sau incompletă, dacă îți rămân anumite lucruri pe care nu le poți ierta și dacă îți dorești ca pe anumite persoane să nu le mai întâlnești vreodată-n viață. Poate că devii un om mai puternic și mai curajos, dacă ai ceva mânie reziduală (fie că provine dintr-o mare trădare, fie din numeroase neplăceri mici) și, în ciuda ei, reușești să-ți vezi de viața ta. Mai important ca orice, nu e treaba nimănui - nici a terapeutului, nici a mamei sau profesorului ori a vreunui ghid spiritual, a celui mai bun prieten sau expert în relații - să-i spună altuia că trebuie să ierte (sau nu).

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