Before you call yourself a Christian, Buddhist, Muslim, Hindu or any other theology, learn to be human first.
Do not give them a candle to light the way, teach them how to make fire instead. That is the meaning of enlightenment.
(n.) One who, or that which, helps, aids, assists, or relieves; as, a lay helper in a parish.
Not everyone who has helped or is helping you wanted or wants to help you.
In some cases, you can tell how somebody is being treated by their own boss from the way they are treating someone to whom they are a boss.
You will know who truly loves you when you ask them to do an uncoventional favor.
Ignorance is your opponent, fear is your enemy, vice is your adversary, virtue is your friend, and wisdom is your helper.
God is my helper.
If you notice yourself viewing a potential partner as a "work in progress", that's a sign to find someone else.
Women need to learn to accept the incredible blessing that God created us to be. When God created Eve, He termed her a comparable mate, a helper to man. When God took Jesus, He gave us the Holy Spirit...
Now you are the helper of this victim, tomorrow the victim will be the killer and you will be the victim.
Monk is helper who to help us in spiritual way.