Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience this problem differently?
Amazing how too much passion in one part of your life can destroy passion in other parts of your life.
The human heart needs only the bare elements to survive, the human brain wants to the limitlessness of tolerance. Finding yourself is a matter of pitching your tent in the middle.
When you can't escape your mind then God is telling your heart to catch up. Fight for the balance you need.