“ When the dead departed, they took away any falsehoods that they might have allowed us to believe while alive; we who are left behind have to embark on a different life, since the dead are no longer he… Yiyun Li
“ Being a mother must be the saddest yet the most hopeful thing in the world, falling into a love that, once started, would never end. Yiyun Li
“ To write about a struggle amidst the struggling: one must hope that the muddling will end someday. Yiyun Li
“ But the thing is, a wife is a wife and you can't ditch her like a worn shirt after a life. Yiyun Li
“ She wonders if this is what people call falling in love, the desire to be with someone for every minute of the rest of her life so strong that sometimes she is frightened of herself. Yiyun Li
“ As their letters became increasingly melancholy, and as they - especially Stefan Zweig - increasingly refused to believe in any hope for themselves or for mankind, Eva was never included in that despa… Yiyun Li
“ I am not and autobiographical writer--one can't be without a solid and explicable self--and read all autobiographical writers with the same curiosity. What kind of life permits a person the right to b… Yiyun Li
“ Tragedy and comedy involve an audience, so they must give--sharing themselves to elicit tears and laughter. Melodrama is not such a strategist. It meets no one's expectation but its internal need to f… Yiyun Li
“ When we feel haunted, it is the pull of our own home we're experiencing, but a more upsetting possibility is that the past has become homeless, and we are offering it a place to inhabit in the present… Yiyun Li
“ Never would I have a more memorable time than the month I spent in the mountains, though I wonder, when I say this, if it appears so only because it is our nature to make a heaven out of places to whi… Yiyun Li
“ There is a difference between being remembered and being caught by the mesh of one's mind. Yiyun Li
“ I have spent much of my life turning away from the scripts given to me, in China and in America; my refusal to be defined by the will of others is my one and only political statement. Yiyun Li
