“ Yet the story of Orpheus, it occurs to me, is not just about the desire of the living to resuscitate the dead but about the ways in which the dead drag us along into their shadowy realm because we can… Meghan O'Rourke
“ But there is a discomfort that surrounds grief. It makes even the most well-intentioned people unsure of what to say. And so many of the freshly bereaved end up feeling even more alone. Meghan O'Rourke
“ The loss is transformative, in good ways and bad, a tangle of change that cannot be threaded into the usual narrative spools...It's not an emergence from the cocoon, but a tree growing around an obstr… Meghan O'Rourke
“ Relationships take up energy; letting go of them, psychiatrists theorize, entails mental work. When you lose someone you were close to, you have to reassess your picture of the world and your place in… Meghan O'Rourke
“ My mother died of metastatic colorectal cancer shortly before three P.M. on Christmas Day of 2008. I don't know the exact time of her death, because none of us thought to look at a clock for a while a… Meghan O'Rourke
“ Grief is a bad moon, a sleeper wave. It's like having an inner combatant, a saboteur who, at the slightest change in the sunlight, or at the first notes of a jingle for a dog food commercial, will fli… Meghan O'Rourke
“ What had happened still seemed implausible. A person was present your entire life, and then one day she disappeared and never came back. It resisted belief. Meghan O'Rourke
“ My whole life, I had been taught to read and study, to seek understanding in knowledge of history, of cultures. Meghan O'Rourke
“ It's all too easy when talking about female gymnasts to fall into the trap of infantilizing them, spending more time worrying more about female vulnerability than we do celebrating female strength. Meghan O'Rourke
“ One of the grubby truths about a loss is that you don't just mourn the dead person, you mourn the person you got to be when the lost one was alive. This loss might even be what affects you the most. Meghan O'Rourke
“ If the condition of grief is nearly universal, its transactions are exquisitely personal. Meghan O'Rourke
