Aziz Gazipura Quote
The main takeaway here is that rejection not only could mean something else, it most always does. The key is to first become aware of the fact that your idea of its meaning—that you are at fault, that you are a loser, that she simply doesn’t like you—is not the truth. From there, you must seek alternative meanings that do not involve personalization and heavy self-criticism.
Aziz Gazipura
The main takeaway here is that rejection not only could mean something else, it most always does. The key is to first become aware of the fact that your idea of its meaning—that you are at fault, that you are a loser, that she simply doesn’t like you—is not the truth. From there, you must seek alternative meanings that do not involve personalization and heavy self-criticism.