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Alison Bechdel Quote

Every one' of the psychoanalytic trainees she [Alice Miller] has supervised has the same history:An insecure parent who did not appear to be insecure, but who depended on the child behaving in a particular way.And an 'amazing ability' on the part of the child to perceive this and take on the assigned role.This role secured 'love' for the child-that is, his parents' narcissistic cathexis. He could sense he was needed and this, he felt, guaranteed him a measure of existential...[as quoted by Alice Miller]

Alison Bechdel

Every one' of the psychoanalytic trainees she [Alice Miller] has supervised has the same history:An insecure parent who did not appear to be insecure, but who depended on the child behaving in a particular way.And an 'amazing ability' on the part of the child to perceive this and take on the assigned role.This role secured 'love' for the child-that is, his parents' narcissistic cathexis. He could sense he was needed and this, he felt, guaranteed him a measure of existential...[as quoted by Alice Miller]

Tags: insecure parent, narcissism, psychoanalytic

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About Alison Bechdel

Alison Bechdel ( BEK-dəl; born September 10, 1960) is an American cartoonist. Originally known for the long-running comic strip Dykes to Watch Out For, she came to critical and commercial success in 2006 with her graphic memoir Fun Home, which was subsequently adapted as a musical that won a Tony Award for Best Musical in 2015. In 2012, she released her second graphic memoir Are You My Mother? She was a 2014 recipient of the MacArthur "Genius" Award. She is also known for originating the Bechdel test.