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S. Neill put it, promising a reward for an activity is tantamount to declaring that the activity is not worth doing for its own sake.26 Thus, a parent who says to a child, If you finish your math homework, you may watch an hour of TV is teaching the child to think of math as something that isn’t much fun.

Alfie Kohn

S. Neill put it, promising a reward for an activity is tantamount to declaring that the activity is not worth doing for its own sake.26 Thus, a parent who says to a child, If you finish your math homework, you may watch an hour of TV is teaching the child to think of math as something that isn’t much fun.

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About Alfie Kohn

Alfie Kohn (born October 15, 1957) is an American author and lecturer in the areas of education, parenting, and human behavior. He is a proponent of progressive education and has offered critiques of many traditional aspects of parenting, managing, and American society more generally, drawing in each case from social science research.
Kohn's challenges to widely accepted theories and practices have made him a controversial figure, particularly with behaviorists, conservatives, and those who defend the practices he calls into question, such as the use of competition, incentive programs, conventional discipline, standardized testing, grades, homework, and traditional schooling.