Its all about perception, that is how you look at. Your own thoughts and outlook defines whether it is good or bad. And your definition determines your response.
Whenever I see an ambulance, I like to think there is a baby being born, rather than a death.
If you hate something, the best way to beat it is to be better than anyone else in it.
Always look up to the better. They tell you where to go but never look down upon inferior because you know, you were once there.