Awareness (of the Self) prevails in matters where one becomes attachment-free (vitrag), and where one has attachment-abhorrence, there his awareness will not prevail.
When is one considered a vitarag (free of attachment)? It is when he has no fear of anything in this world.
When everyone in the family is united, when they resolve their issues with each other and unite; it is called vitarag bhav, attachment-free intent. And to disunite is to have raag-dwesh, attachment-ab...
What is the essence of Vitrag? Fearlessness!