It's the giving that makes one stronger, but sometimes the taking can make one weaker, if even vulnerable or blinding.
Some people are severely lonely, all they can do is accept the single life as an example of being free and happy.
You're FAT - and don't try to sugarcoat it, because you'll just eat that, too.
A cynical modification of letting go doesn't bring forgiveness, it's when, once you forgive, will you be able to let go.