Your heart desire will come, but when it comes, you desire for another, and when it comes again, you still aspire for another, that shows your level of ingratitude.
Thus Gotama [Buddha] walked toward the town to gather alms, and the two samanas recognized him solely by the perfection of his repose, by the calmness of his figure, in which there was no trace of see...
(p. pr. & vb. n.) of Desire
I would far prefer to be in someone's arms than just in their head.
Life is a game, you live so you play. Follow your dreams and win what your happy heart desires.
The secret of happiness is to admire without desiring. And that is not happiness.