“ I said that additionally, since I was planning to nurse, it be best if you were off the breast before I came back to work. My boss just looked at me dreamily and said, 'That won't be for sixty years,… Suzanne Finnamore
“ After you are here, I will try not to become one of those parents who brag incessantly about their children, who force them to recite the alphabet backward or sing the Lord's Prayer in German to horri… Suzanne Finnamore
“ When you moved, I felt squeezed with a wild infatuation and protectiveness. We are one. Nothing, not even death, can change that. Suzanne Finnamore
“ I've felt basically lucky ever since, almost every day of my life. That's something else love should make you feel. It should make you fell fortunate.It will be made clear to you in a stray gesture, t… Suzanne Finnamore
“ Together we agree that there are few tableaus more pathetic than a woman poring over a plethora of self-help books, while in a small café across town her husband is sharing a bottle of Pouilly-Fuissé… Suzanne Finnamore
“ I think: I would like to take N back to a story right now, like a rake. I would say, "Oh, this rake is uneven. Do you have any where the tines go straight across?" I would like to do a straight exchan… Suzanne Finnamore
“ People told me not to get married; I didn´t listen. No one ever listens, it seems to me now. Perhaps people should stop trying to communicate. N was not a communicator; early on, I´d insisted on commu… Suzanne Finnamore
“ The real genesis is forbidden to me, vis-à-vis N´s inability to confess even the mildest transgressions. Suzanne Finnamore
“ They ought to do away with divorce settlements. Instead, both parties should flip a coin. The winner gets to stay where he or she is and keep everything. The loser goes to Paraguay. That´s it. Suzanne Finnamore
“ I sensed he may have occasionally strayed in some of his past relationships. It was something I felt but ignored, a rent in the fabric of an otherwise splendid garment I thought I could mend. I though… Suzanne Finnamore
“ This is much worse than losing a cat. You do not wish the cat dead, for example, after the first two days. You still love the cat and presumably the cat still loves you, or some variation of love that… Suzanne Finnamore
“ This is much easier than when N left. Our son is unable to grasp and simultaneously turn doorknobs yet. If only this trick could be unlearned by men over thirty, many more families would celebrate Chr… Suzanne Finnamore
“ Irrationally, I think, Will You Marry Me? Four words. I Want a Divorce. Four words. I would like time to count the letters as well, but there is not time. Suzanne Finnamore
“ This people know where their husbands are. I would like to vomit. I would like to vomit my soul out. Suzanne Finnamore
“ I want to own this transition, not to simply swallow the shame of it entire. I will push for every little irony. Suzanne Finnamore
“ Soon he was online every night until one or two a.m. Often he would wake up at three of four a.m. and go back online. He would shut down the computer screen when I walked in. In the past, he used to t… Suzanne Finnamore
