Susan Cain Quote

If you want your child to learn these skills, don’t let her hear you call her shy: she’ll believe the label and experience her nervousness as a fixed trait rather than an emotion she can control. She also knows full well that shy is a negative word in our society. Above all, do not shame her for her shyness.

Susan Cain

If you want your child to learn these skills, don’t let her hear you call her shy: she’ll believe the label and experience her nervousness as a fixed trait rather than an emotion she can control. She also knows full well that shy is a negative word in our society. Above all, do not shame her for her shyness.

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About Susan Cain

Susan Horowitz Cain (born 1968) is an American writer and lecturer.
She is the author of the 2012 non-fiction book Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, which argues that modern Western culture misunderstands and undervalues the traits and capabilities of introverted people. In 2015, she co-founded Quiet Revolution, a mission-based company with initiatives in the areas of children (parenting and education), lifestyle, and the workplace. Her 2016 follow-on book, Quiet Power: The Secret Strengths of Introverts, focused on introverted children and teens, the book also being directed to their educators and parents.
Her book Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole (2022) focused on accepting feelings of sorrow and longing as inspiration to experience sublime emotions—such as beauty and wonder and transcendence—to counterbalance the "normative sunshine" of society's pressure to constantly be positive.