Shannon L. Alder Quotes

Denial is the way people handle what they cannot handle.

Winning or losing achieves the same result--change.

Churches were never meant to be mental hospitals. They were supposed to be military outposts under orders to storm the gates of hell. Every believer is on active duty and called to serve a higher purp...

When you love yourself you won't need to ask God if someone is being honest with you. You will know already because you wouldn't have asked him if you had the self confidence to know how people should...

Never leave a situation unless you know what you needed and what you were never going to get.

God's justice will always be found at the end of a pen.

Screwing up is hardly a major mistake. Sometimes your wrong choices bring you to the right places.

If you have to make a daily choice to be in a relationship then you are married to the past, not the person.

Empowered Women 101: If he has to destroy other people to raise your self esteem and level of trust then he is not a son of God and guess what your not a daughter of God for letting him do it.

Kindness is love in action, not feeling emotions or thoughts of empathy only. Kindness is doing!

All we have is "One Life", so go for IT!

Often the truth is in front of your face, but your eyes and heart are so full of lies that you can't see it.

Every talent you have is not wasted. It is there because of a reason and God will open that door when the right time comes along to use it.

Sometimes, the scariest thing you will ever have to do is trust God to fight the battles you can no longer fight.

Always remember that you can explain things for people, but you can't comphrend for them.

No one likes a person that "should of" all over the place.

Your expectations of other people should never be greater than what you expect of God. Why is it that you can patiently wait for him to make your life better, but you won't consider he is patiently wa...

Great leaders get people to admit the truth because they know that dreams are buried under the lies they tell themselves, in order to feel okay with giving up.

Never believe someone cares for you because of other people's reactions. Sometimes you have to drown out the noise from the crowd, in order to figure out if there is a song playing between the two of...

Every game is winnable if you change your mind about what the prize should be and your perspective about the players at the table.