Shannon L. Alder Quotes

Extraordinary change can happen in your life, but it will take extraordinary people, extraordinary courage and extraordinary faith to believe that this won't be a repeat of your past.

Expectations are nothing more than the rules we set, in order to maintain our ego and self esteem. What we seek from others is often that fulfillment of what we believe we require for happiness. Howev...

Kindness is love in action, not feeling emotions or thoughts of empathy only. Kindness is doing!

When a person thinks you are too good for them, they create a wall without even taking a chance. The best life that God has in store for a person is often thrown away because of what he or she thinks...

The goal for most people should not be to feel better, but to get better at feeling.

Respect should be found in your own heart and never demanded, sacraficed, begged for or negotiated. If you have to explain why you deserve it then you never had it.

If you have to make a daily choice to be in a relationship then you are married to the past, not the person.

Live is not about constantly fighting to keep someone in your life. It is about constantly fighting for a better life together.

Screwing up is hardly a major mistake. Sometimes your wrong choices bring you to the right places.

When you love yourself you won't need to ask God if someone is being honest with you. You will know already because you wouldn't have asked him if you had the self confidence to know how people should...

Often the truth is in front of your face, but your eyes and heart are so full of lies that you can't see it.

What people can get you or do for you will never replace a person that will influence you to be a better person.

The only person worth risking everything for is the one person that would never let you risk everything for.

Denial is the way people handle what they cannot handle.

No one likes a person that "should of" all over the place.

You will know it is love when the need can't be met by yourself or God.

Peace is not about who you can live with, but who you can't live without.

I waited for the seasons of love to pass from this cold winter to the summer heat I dreamed of.

Sometimes you can't agree with people because you would both be wrong.

Never leave a situation unless you know what you needed and what you were never going to get.