Frank Jude Boccio, author of Mindfulness Yoga, to think about as he leaves the session: We bitch about our difficulties along the rough surface of our path, we curse every sharp stone underneath, unti...
At one time you pursued Stephanie with great creativity, but no more. There’s an assumption—and you’re not alone—that we need only pursue what we don’t yet possess. The trick is that in order to keep...
Terry Real, who has written extensively about men in relationships, describes a particular unholy triangle between the powerful, irresponsible, and/or abusive father, the codependent, downtrodden wife...
Rather than inhibiting a couple’s sexuality, recognizing the third has a tendency to add spice, not least because it reminds us that we do not own our partners. We
Oscar Wilde wrote, In this world there are only two tragedies. One is getting what one wants, and the other is not getting it. When our desires are unfulfilled, we
Love is at once an affirmation and a transcendence of who we are.
Infidelity hurts. But when we grant it a special status in the hierarchy of marital misdemeanors, we risk allowing it to overshadow the egregious behaviors that may have preceded it or even led to it.
I regret to say that we of the FBI are powerless to act in cases of oral-genital intimacy, unless it has in some way obstructed interstate commerce. —J. Edgar Hoover
Beginnings are always ripe with possibilities, for they hold the promise of completion. Through love we imagine a new way of being. You see me as I’ve never seen myself. You airbrush my imperfections,...
Armed with an ideology of love that advocates togetherness, we are awkward about pursuing autonomy. This is especially true of the individuality of our desire.