You will never accept gratitude as a solution to your problems, until you have reached the last stage of grief--acceptance.
ALL SAY I AM SWEET,SINCE I NEVER CHEAT,I DO THINGS NEAT,WHETHER IT IS TO EAT,FOR WELL-WISHERS I HAVE A TREAT,TODAY I STAND ON MY FEET.
Speak so polite with people that your ill wishers become your well wishers.