If they keep coming back to you, it isn't love. It is because you made yourself and easy option. The moment the thing they truly want becomes less difficult to obtain is when you will realize that you...
Never tell a child that something it’s too hard
…I had seen the princess and let her lie there unawakened, because the happily ever after was so damnably much work.
Trying too hard to be too good, even when trying to be bad, is too good for the bad, too bad for the good.