Gentleman: An imaginary creature found in Jane Austen novels.
I suggest he starts introducing himself as "Lessman"; he is classless, tactless, and mannerless.
(a.) Destitute of tact.
Why, he was so handsome and brave that no one would ever have suspected that he was bookish!
You can’t control other people’s actions, but you can control who “thinks” they have control over you.