Knowing who you are in the world need to come first in identifying yourself
Identify your life mission and gift
To know who I am is a species of knowing where I stand. My identity is defined by the commitments and identifications which provide the frame or horizon within which I can try to determine from case t...
[M]y discovering my own identity doesn't mean that I work it out in isolation, but that I negotiate it through dialogue, partly overt, partly internal, with others.
Don't let them make anything of you but yourself, that's all.