Embrace who you are and your divine purpose. Identify the barriers in your life, and develop discipline, courage and the strength to permanently move beyond them, and keep moving forward.
If it doesn't agree with your spirit let it go.
Instead of hating someone, pray for that person. Don't forget to pray for yourself as well, that you may learn how to let go and forgive.
Of course she no longer excites him. She no longer works overtime to maintain a dumpster fire.
Don't cry over spilt milk when you can milk another cow.
Don't focus on who let you down. Appreciate who lifted you up. Don't focus on who darkened your days. Appreciate who brightened them.