If you put yourself in the emotion that you want from others, you are more likely to receive it.
Some women are built by the fire. Yet, there are some that are the FIRE!
When mankind is drowning in a multitude of problems, swimming is not the solution. The solution is reaching higher ground which is the ultimate salvation.
God doesn't hand you an easy life because you will grow in it. He hands you a dream with hurdles, obstacles, setbacks, battles and challenges because he knows the real you is at the finishing line.