If your relationship is draining your energy, making you lose yourself and taking your attention away from God, then you are not in a relationship but a cult. You are busy creating an idol (mini-God)...
Change the way you treat your partner. Learn to treat your partner as you would yourself. Change the way you pray for your partner. Learn to pray unselfishly. Change the way you talk to your partner....
Learn to set the pace for your relationship as a couple...not how the world thinks but how God designed it to be.
Women are the jewels, but for them to feel that way, they must focus on enriching their body, mind and soul.
Honesty is one of the key elements to a great relationship. If you cannot be honest with your partner, stay single.