Terri Apter Quote
Robert reflects:I go weak at the knees when she turns against me. I forget what it's like to feel courage. I try to remind myself that the worst of it will pass, that she won't be like that forever. She's mad now, but there will come a time when she's not mad. When I was growing up, I tried all sorts of things to get me through these times. I used to think It won't be so bad if she doesn't hit me. And then I got to noticing that whether or not she hit me didn't matter. What I was afraid of was that she was going to explode and disappear.
Terri Apter
Robert reflects:I go weak at the knees when she turns against me. I forget what it's like to feel courage. I try to remind myself that the worst of it will pass, that she won't be like that forever. She's mad now, but there will come a time when she's not mad. When I was growing up, I tried all sorts of things to get me through these times. I used to think It won't be so bad if she doesn't hit me. And then I got to noticing that whether or not she hit me didn't matter. What I was afraid of was that she was going to explode and disappear.