It is not nice to play for marriage, whether your own or that of someone else, as a soda stopper. The result is the unclean of the human dignity. Respect your marriage to take care of your dignity.
When I was born I was loved and feared, people played with me but I never played with them. I loved them.
I was thought of before I was born. I am more important than money. If money was more important than me I would not exist. There are days when I wake up I have no money.