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Shannon L. Alder Quote

When you can identify the insecurities inside the person that is hurting you then you can begin to heal. It isn't about you. It is about their past.

Shannon L. Alder

When you can identify the insecurities inside the person that is hurting you then you can begin to heal. It isn't about you. It is about their past.

Tags: abusers, childhood trauma, compassion, empathy, get it, narcissism, understanding

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