Prejudice doesn't allow one to accept another at a higher level. However their values or views might be respected.
The more you resist, the stronger you get.
Sadness indeed paves to a philosophical thinking.
Feeling hurt and not being able to recover is a consequence of 'Love until it hurts'.
I don't usually play games. I got added to one and was played.When I realize the creator I will be the coach, now that I've mastered the game.