You're much better off with a dogthan a dogma.
If you don't have love, you don't have much at all.
If you don't REALLY miss someone, it's because you never REALLY connected very deeply with them.
Without Love, you can't know yourself.
This moment is all there is and LOVE is like the glue that keeps you in it.
Most likely, your issue, is that NO ONE has REALLY been there for YOU in YOUR life.