A real pastor will always show respect for people.
A good shepherd has a positive influence on his people through "inward work", i.e. working on them from the inside.
A good shepherd encourages and inspires each one that works alongside him.
You have to become a ladder that other people climb up in their path to success. If you are not ready for that, then you are not ready to be a pastor.
Only a real pastor and a true leader will be looking for ways to train and equip his people to develop their potential.