The strong live off the weak and the clever live off the strong.
The PUAs have a name for this: They call it one-itis. It’s a disease AFCs get: They become obsessed with a girl they’re neither dating nor sleeping with, and then start acting so needy and nervous aro...
That's when I started to leave it behind. I realized that I got my entire validation from women. Women became like gods to me, but false gods.
I used to think that the term inner child was a ridiculous metaphor invented to remind responsibility-burdened adults to lighten up occasionally and just have fun. But it turns out that the inner chil...
A rich man doesn't need to tell you he's rich.
You don't shower or shave for a month, until you smell like a sewer. Then you walk around for two weeks wearing a dress and a goalie mask with a dildo strapped to the front. That's what I did. And I w...
One of the reasons I became a writer is that, unlike starting a band, directing movies, or acting in a theatrical production, you can do it alone. Your success and failure depend entirely on yourself.
I used to think that a good relationship meant always getting along. But the secret, I realize, is that when one person shuts down or throws a fit, the other needs to stay in the adult ego state. If b...
There are only so many ways to get rejected or ignored. It doesn't hurt at all anymore because why should someone who's a complete stranger have any control over your sense of selfworth?
You know what else I did?' he yelled after me as I left. I fingered her!I turned back to look at him. He made me laugh. He pretended to be so confused and helpless, but maybe he was smarter than all o...
Project Hollywood had reached a new nadir. MYSTERY:
Most people seem to believe that if a relationship doesn't last until death, it's a failure. But the only relationship that's truly a failure is one that lasts longe than it should. The success of a r...
It’s not lying, it’s flirting.
In this life, we don't meet many people who truly love us, who accept us for who we are, who put us before themselves.
If there was anything I'd learned, it's that the man never chooses the woman. All he can do is give her an opportunity to choose him.
If a woman has been married three years or more, you come to learn that she's usually easier to sleep with than a single woman.
How you do anything is how you do everything,
Guilt is about what you do with your dick. Shame is about being a dick.
For all the self-improvement books I had read, I still wasn't above shallow validation-seeking. None of us were. That's why we were in the game. Sex wasn't about getting our rocks off; it was about be...
Being alone was the best thing I ever did for myself. I’ve always gone from one relationship to another, hoping the other person would help me figure out who I was or complete me and make me feel whol...