Experiences might teach us to be cautious, but never to be paranoid. Paranoia is a limiter of destiny
The day you subscribe to being loved by everyone is the day you stop growing.
Loving yourself is the first step towards knowing what you would and wouldn't take from people - it determines not just the way people treat you but the relationships you keep in the first place
If you love yourself, you will be happy because you will always have your own company and attention