To gain an overall understanding of oneself does not require looking outward - it requires the strength of looking inward.
Instead of bracing yourself for the perils of the unknown, embrace the joy that is here, in your present moment.
It is just as important to give all of what you are, than all of what you have. Nevertheless, it is always reciprocated.
When you come to a fork in the road, be still, and see with your mind's eye. There you find the clarity you seek.
The soul is stronger than the ego. It lives to BE, and give. We are of one Light, illuminating ourselves and those whom we love.
Who you were is not who you are. Who you are, is what you will be.