The act is unjustifiable that either begs for a blessing, or, having succeeded gives no thanksgiving.
I overheard a young man once saying to his wife, "I can't control you. That's the problem and it's been the problem ever since day one!" And then I heard her answer him and heard her terrible voice. "...
You can employ men and hire hands to work for you, but you must win their hearts to have them work with you.
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.