There are no injuries that run so deep that one can't add insult to them and make them feel even worse.
It was unhealthy to get too attached. Such things were best reserved for people who had a life expectancy
When the universe presented unexpected gifts to the undeserving, how else were they to react, except with sheer paranoia?
It seems to me that God would not have endowed us with a mind and a sense of curiosity if he did not mean for us to use it.