“ My demeanor isn't that of a woman enraged. To see me slumped, glassy-eyed, holding a sandwich someone has cut for me into four "manageable" pieces, a person might tell you I look much more like a woma… Koren Zailckas
“ I think what I learned in research is that as Americans, we're very distrustful of anger. We're not sure if we should repress it. The idea that anger is supposed to be controlled is American, and we t… Koren Zailckas
“ I think, for one, we have to really accept that anger is a normal human emotion that can be a positive force for change. Koren Zailckas
“ We are taught to believe it's bad to be angry, or at least it's not good. That's not the case all throughout the world. People are more open and not embarrassed about it. For instance in Paris, people… Koren Zailckas
“ I do think anger is so difficult for women. Girls think it undermines their femininity it's not very ladylike. Koren Zailckas
“ Even years from now, once I've stopped drinking, I will never stop trusting extremes. I will always believe that anything worth having is worth having in excess. The good things are worth hoarding unt… Koren Zailckas
“ It's not rocking the boat, Dad. It's called communication. You're allowed to ask questions. Other people do it all the time. Other people don't live in fear of someone else's reactions. They don't rel… Koren Zailckas
“ Violet remembered that slap; later her mother had called it a "love tap," as if to further confuse love with pain. Koren Zailckas
“ That's the thing about social drinking: In the end, it's the drinking that creates the scene, not the other way around. You grow to relish the buzz, regardless of the situation. Once you're there, rea… Koren Zailckas
“ I'm trying to figure out precisely which character flaw might be responsible for my latest life failure. Koren Zailckas
“ I'd written Smashed not because I was ambitious and not because writing down my feelings was cathartic (it felt more like playing one's own neurosurgeon sans anesthesia). No. I'd made a habit--and eve… Koren Zailckas
“ My boyfriends have all been as stoical as queen's guards. They'd been patient, committed, and dispassionate, and I'd had to really debase myself to extract any emotion, either grin or grimace, from th… Koren Zailckas
“ But in college, we can wear our alcohol abuse as proudly as our university sweatshirts; the two concepts are virtually synonymous. Koren Zailckas
“ I once heard someone say that the concept of moderation seems a little extreme, and tonight...I agree. Koren Zailckas
“ I'm sick of the ignorance that lack of funding has generated, of the fathers who apporach me at dinner parties with their four-year-old girls clasped to their pant legs and say, "Yeah, but studies say… Koren Zailckas
“ There's a limit to my patience with anything that smacks of metaphysics. I squirm at the mention of "mind expansion" or "warm healing energy." I don't like drum circles, public nudity or strangers tou… Koren Zailckas
