Be your self at your personal best
Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.
Why do women waste their time trying to convince their insecure family members and girlfriends that they are beautiful? Self esteem is not a beauty cream that you can rub all over them and see instant...
Talking to strangers is very panic fear, to be fearless and good communicator in long term try talking to strangers with courage like you already know them.