“ Your children should not have to act appropriately so that you can feel like a valuable person. It is not their job to validate you or erase past relationship indictments against you with their perfor… Jeff VanVonderen
“ In other words, children's choices are their responsibility, and result from how they decide to meet their own needs. Once you understand this, you can learn to stop interpreting their choices as stat… Jeff VanVonderen
“ I cannot make my kids obey. But I can control my responses to their disobedience—that is, I can respect their choices and provide wise consequences for their actions, so they can learn just as much ab… Jeff VanVonderen
“ Parents know all about the verses related to how children should behave but not so much about those that remind them about how they should behave. Jeff VanVonderen
“ The wife's list, no matter how long or short, communicates to the husband, "I don't like you. I don't accept you. But if you perform the way I think you should, then I will like and accept you." And n… Jeff VanVonderen
