Iain M. Banks Quote

Where do you keep your memories of love, past lovers? QiRia looked at her. In my head, of course. He looked away. There are not so many of those, anyway, he said, voice a little quieter. Loving becomes harder, the longer you live, and I have lived a very long time indeed. He fixed his gaze on her again. I’m sure it varies across species – some seem to do quite well with no idea of love at all – but you soon enough come to realise that love generally comes from a need within ourselves, and that the behaviour, the… expression of love is what is most important to us, not the identity, not the personality of the one who is loved.

Iain M. Banks

Where do you keep your memories of love, past lovers? QiRia looked at her. In my head, of course. He looked away. There are not so many of those, anyway, he said, voice a little quieter. Loving becomes harder, the longer you live, and I have lived a very long time indeed. He fixed his gaze on her again. I’m sure it varies across species – some seem to do quite well with no idea of love at all – but you soon enough come to realise that love generally comes from a need within ourselves, and that the behaviour, the… expression of love is what is most important to us, not the identity, not the personality of the one who is loved.

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About Iain M. Banks

Iain Banks (16 February 1954 – 9 June 2013) was a Scottish author, writing mainstream fiction as Iain Banks and science fiction as Iain M. Banks, adding the initial of his adopted middle name Menzies ( ). After the success of The Wasp Factory (1984), he began to write full time. His first science fiction book, Consider Phlebas, appeared in 1987, marking the start of the Culture series. His books have been adapted for theatre, radio, and television. In 2008, The Times named Banks in their list of "The 50 greatest British writers since 1945".
In April 2013, Banks announced he had inoperable cancer and was unlikely to live beyond a year. He died on 9 June 2013.