Aware of his silence, a wife often says, Why are you always quiet? And he winds up thinking, If I say something, I’m in trouble. If I don’t say something, I’m in trouble. But if I don’t say something,...
Too much in their dispute. I heeded the warning in Proverbs 26:17: Like one who seizes a dog by the ears is a passer-by who meddles in a quarrel not his own (NIV).
Creo que el amor se expresa con acciones y no con reacciones
Your husband needs you to love him, but he also needs you to like him as a friend.
You begin to resent your spouse and other people because they haven’t healed your hurts or comforted you. Get rid of the victim mind-set! Realize that the only real healing and comfort you’re going to...
YOU CAN BE RIGHT BUT WRONG AT THE TOP OF YOUR VOICE
When offended, husbands should act like men, be strong(1 Corinthians 16:13).
Tension has a way of tearing down your self-image.
Always do or say what you do or say knowing your speech or actions reflect who you are, not who your spouse is.
The good news, as my mom used to say, is that in prison they can get a Bible, whereas in school they cannot.)
«El que mucho habla, mucho yerra; el que es sabio refrena su lengua» (Proverbios 10.19, NVI).
The husband decides he will motivate his wife to become more respectful by acting in unloving ways. This usually proves about as successful as trying to sell a pickup to an Amish farmer.
Your spouse can affect you, but your spouse does not control you.
You should talk to God about others before you talk to others about God. Ask Him for discernment about whether what you want to say is necessary.
When we conclude the other person needs the light of the truth, and we can speak it lovingly, respectfully, and coherently, then we ought to communicate it. We must speak up for the sake of the truth...
We easily see what is done to us before we see what we are doing to our mate.
Truly, truly, I say to you, everyone who commits sin is the slave of sin. . . . if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed (John 8:34, 36). What
The difference between successful couples and unsuccessful couples is that the successful ones keep getting up and keep dealing with the issues. Unsuccessful couples want it easy. They want it now. Th...
Cuando una esposa «se reviste de […] dignidad», ella se conduce de manera honorable y actúa con respeto (Proverbios 31.25, NVI).
You tell him you like him and you show it (he knows you love him, but he often wonders if you really like him).