The swing between confronting the dangerous or brutal and the beautiful or the kind is one of the elements of being human that I have battled with all my life. That mixture of love and savagery is the...
I hope for what I always hope for as a writer: a critical but kind reader. I think that is what we all hope for.
The best way of writing sex scenes is to do the first draft, orgasm, and then start editing. You can be objective post-orgasm.