Bruce Feiler Quote

After a few more weeks of equally uninspired gatherings, I called David. You’re focusing on the wrong thing, he said. The purpose of the meeting is not to talk about each of you as individuals. It’s to focus on how you’re functioning as a family. He was right. When else did we discuss this most basic thing: how we were a family. We redesigned our questions: 1. What worked well in our family this week? 2. What went wrong in our family this week? 3. What will we work on this coming week?

Bruce Feiler

After a few more weeks of equally uninspired gatherings, I called David. You’re focusing on the wrong thing, he said. The purpose of the meeting is not to talk about each of you as individuals. It’s to focus on how you’re functioning as a family. He was right. When else did we discuss this most basic thing: how we were a family. We redesigned our questions: 1. What worked well in our family this week? 2. What went wrong in our family this week? 3. What will we work on this coming week?

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About Bruce Feiler

Bruce Feiler (born October 25, 1964) is an American writer and television personality. He is the author of 15 books, including The Council of Dads, a book that describes how he responded to a diagnosis of a rare cancer by asking a group of men to be present in the lives of his young daughters. The book was the subject of a TED Talk and inspired NBC drama series Council of Dads. His latest work explores the power of life stories. Drawing on interviews with Americans in all 50 states, he offers strategies for coping with life's unsettling times in his new book, Life Is In The Transitions. Bruce writes the "This Life" column in the Sunday New York Times and is also the writer/presenter of the PBS miniseries Walking the Bible and Sacred Journeys with Bruce Feiler (2014).