What alarms me most is the fact that, even when God has now raised up a voice to speak on these issues, many sincerely believe that I am in error or at worst that I am doing something utterly wrong
There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
(adv.) In an utter manner; to the full extent; fully; totally; as, utterly ruined; it is utterly vain.