When you feel that others are lacking and failing ....first assess the skill, style, quality, results, mindset, support, professionalism and spirit with which you yourself play the game.
You will find your true spirit when you lose your egocentric, self-centered desires and fill your mind with pure love and non-judgmental thoughts.
When we are non-judgmental and mindful, we find peace in the moment and the moment becomes blissful.
Sometimes, all you need is someone who will listen. It is fortune enough to have people around who hear you & not judge you.
Of course we need to accept ourselves as we are, but we can't stop there. We also need to value ourselves enough make needed changes.
To be happy and beloved have a tender heart, blissful thoughts, and a non-judgmental mind.
The highest freedom of mind comes from becoming non-judgmental.
When you are non-judgmental, you are happy. Happiness depends on you, on your thoughts, on your attitude, on your ideas and vision, and nothing else.