The reason as to why we are attracted to our opposites is because they are our salvation from the burden of being ourselves.
An obese ego is just about the heaviest thing you’ll ever carry. So maybe you should stop feeding it.
(imp. & p. p.) of Burden
Physical attraction did its part to glue them together, but something stronger than sexual attraction sealed the bond. When men and women grow apart, it is for the same reason they are drawn together;...