If you're not reaching back to help anyone then you're not building a legacy.
You only ever have three things: 1) your self, wellbeing and mindset 2) Your life network, resources and resourcefulness 3) Your reputation and goodwill. Treasure and tend the first. Value, support an...
The internet and online communication is the window into your world - but real life, in person communication / connection is the door.
Don't burn your bridges until you build better ones.
Building a relationship is rare..' Make the commitment wholeheartedly. Just do it and do it for both of you. Love doesn't have to be perfect, but it needs to be true.